What I want you to know about me is that I’m a world class Coach who you can trust and feel safe with. I have over 8 years of continuous sobriety. I graduated law school #1 in my class and practiced law at an elite international law firm where I excelled and accomplished things unheard of before I got there.
I’m deeply in love with my Wife and we have a happy, healthy, and fulfilling marriage.
I have an unwavering faith in the God of my understanding.
I’ve created a life beyond my wildest dreams.
And I was a professional tap dancer in my twenties 🙂
What I don’t want you to know about me is that I struggled with perfectionism and people-pleasing for many years and sometimes still do.
For a long time I hid behind a mask.
I hid my emotions and fears, and pretended like everything was okay.
I suffered in silence with addiction, alcoholism, and depression for almost a decade before hitting rock bottom in 2011 when I wrecked my vehicle while blacked-out drunk. Fortunately, that was exactly what I needed to wake up and step onto the path of recovery, healing, and growth that would ultimately set me free and get me here.
The best part is that my most challenging life experiences are now my greatest assets as a Coach.
Declaration of Who I Be (the Distinction Stephen Gerard Sainato) …
I AM whole, worthy, and complete.
I AM loved, loving, and lovable.
I AM that no one is worthy of my judgment and that everyone is worthy of my love.
I AM deeply grateful for my life and everyone in it.
I AM unconditional love.
I AM loving kindness and awareness.
I AM commitment to the intentional creation of my life.
I AM surrendered and total trust in the God of my understanding.
I AM inspiration and leadership.
I AM lightness, laughter, and fun.
I AM my word.
I AM graciously authentic.
I AM a master and a student.
I AM that I live in the Spirit of Forgiveness.
I AM the most powerful, loving, brilliant, intuitive, effective, and committed Coach in the world.
I AM that I love and believe in you.
I AM that I see your humanity and Divinity.
I AM freedom, fulfillment, and impact.
I AM dreams come true.
I AM total life satisfaction.
I AM acknowledgment, empowerment, enlightenment, and expansion.
I AM that I cause life-altering shifts in thinking and being.
I AM that I cause powerful breakthroughs, miracles, and transformation.
I AM possibility- and miracle-minded.
I AM profound presence, deep listening, healing, and comfort.
I AM empathy and deep compassion.
I AM extraordinary service, impeccable standing, and professionalism.
I AM a strong and healthy mind, body, and spirit.
I AM a vessel for Love and space for Grace.
I AM loving permission to make mistakes and grow through everything.
I AM immensely powerful from a place of humility and peace.
I AM confident, handsome, healthy, and jacked
I AM the best husband in the world.
I AM that I see God in everything and everyone because God is in my mind and Heart.
I AM living and loving and loving living.
I AM pure bliss.
I AM in alignment.
I AM blessed.
I AM free.
I AM home.